Tantra

Meditate with your woman, sing with your woman, play with your woman,
dance with your woman, with no idea of sex. Don't go on thinking,
'When are we going to bed?' Forget about it. Do something else and get
lost into it. And some day love will arise out of that being lost,
suddenly you will see that you are making love and you are not making
... it. It is happening, you are possessed by it. Then you have your first
Tantra experience – possessed by something bigger than you. You were
dancing or you were singing together or you were chanting together or
you were praying together or meditating together, and suddenly you
find you both have moved into a new space. And you don't know when you
have started making love; you don't remember either. Then you are
being possessed by Tantra energy. And then for the first time you will
see a non-technical experience.

Osho